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hope
hope
11 months ago

So sad. It brings thoughts of this strange time in my life which I will share with you.

I remember I was a “big” in the program big brother’s big sisters. The mom did this strange thing where she was fattening up her children. Putting rules where if they didn’t eat more more more then they’d get punished in different ways.

The kind of thing where many people would say “Oh there’s nothing wrong with that” but it was surely abusive. The kids were gaining miserable amounts of weight. I was a big for 3 years for one of the children, and I tried so much. I tried to reason with the mom to no avail, I even tried to report the parent, but nothing came of it other than getting gaslit.

For all those years, the mom would tell the children “Once you are old enough (16) and I sign for your surgery (stomach banding) then you’ll be able to do anything you want. You will feel great. You will be attractive. Your life will be better.”

My “little sister” and I got along really well. We had many good times together. But for this part of life, I tried to tell my “little” that she did not need to do it. That she was beautiful and could do anything she wanted as she stood today, and that she can at least try to tell her mother no. Unfortunately I watched her as she tried to tell her mother no, and get punished. As she tried to exercise or take walks and got shut down by her mom.

Then when she hit 16, she got the stomach banding, and still weighed a lot, and that was OK but I felt it was so strange, so surreal, so unnecessary. It all felt that way, the whole time. (I knew her from 9yrs old til 17yrs old) Why would the mom want to put her children through all of this?

The closest my friends and I could come up with was some kind of mental illness where the mother wanted to make the children have a problem so that she could “save them”.

We left the program with each other on a good note. I asked her if I’d helped her in any way. She kind of shrugged and said “I didn’t join a gang.” It’s many years later now, and I have tried to find her since and couldn’t, but I’m sure she’s doing well now. She’s a good kid and she has a good head on her shoulders, and many kids have been through much worse, but it will always stay in the recesses of my memory that adults just mess with children in the strangest ways.

The memory hit me from watching this. They are telling the kids “Once you get your breasts cut off you can have euphoria.” Oh, sweet sweet euphoria after going under the scalpel. Why are they teaching children this? It seems abusive at best, and evil at the core.

Last edited 11 months ago by hope
nodnoc
nodnoc
11 months ago
Reply to  hope

It is for sure evil. Thank you for sharing your experience

d1d1d1
d1d1d1
11 months ago
Reply to  hope

Satan is the god of this world, my friend. It’s an extremely uncomfortable truth.

marie
marie
11 months ago
Reply to  hope

Woah, sorry you went through that. Try eating a lot of soup and drinking tea and doing some tai chi, if you need to lose weight it will help. I helped my friend go from 200 pounds to 105. Anyways back to what you were saying it’s Strange she saw you as just another one (gang) when you were doing something very kind and individualistic to offer your future assistance. I can imagine it felt like a punch to the gut. Well actually I know how that feels.. Sometimes you just can’t win. I hope you keep being yourself even with the cold reactions that really don’t make sense.

Hessian Flower
Hessian Flower
11 months ago
Reply to  hope

That’s an excellent analogy, about the voluntary mastectomy. I think what you were describing with your little sister’s mother is an unusual case of Munchausen by proxy.

Whatevs
Whatevs
11 months ago

Christianity was a newcomer and it was “normalized” too. And Netherlands have always been progressive. Those researchers who believed earth revolved around sun had to flee to Netherlands from Christian fanatic persecutors.

Daughter_of_Dust
Daughter_of_Dust
11 months ago

Perverse adults.

d1d1d1
d1d1d1
11 months ago

It’s been deleted now. Maybe Elon isn’t as bad as we thought.

(Spoiler: He’s far worse than you thought)